Dealings between husband and wife

Śrīla Śukadeva Gosvāmī continued: After informing Bhavānī in this way, Lord Śiva began to drink the poison, and Bhavānī, who knew perfectly well the capabilities of Lord Śiva, gave him her permission to do so.

Srimad Bhagavatam 8.7.41

The dealings between the husband and wife as exemplified by Lord Siva and Parvati devi. Before executing a task Lord Siva informed his wife and sought her permission. Wife is regarded as minister. Just like king wouldn't take any decisions without consulting minister. Similarly husband should consult with his wife before taking any task. That's a proper relationship.

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