Why women need to be trained as mothers?

As women,  we all have been pressurised or insisted on being in such and such a way that obstructs our freedom. Often, we find so many young girls asking, why is that so many restrictions for women? Don't wear this, don't do that, don't go there and sit properly etc.. annoying isn't it? 

To the extent, women become vexed up "being cursed to born as women", such women become toxic and potentially hazardous than carbon monoxide. 

We, all women of 20th century must understand this.  

Women are strictly trained for the want of good society. Today's children are tomorrow's citizens. Nature of children primarily depends on their mother.  

Kaśyapa had two principal wives Diti and Aditi. To same father, two different children were born, devas (demigods) and daityas (demons).  Since Aditi was a devotee and self controlled woman, her children inherited her nature. Diti was swayed by passion resulting in sons of destructive ability. 

SB 3.14.39, Purport: 

Contemptuous sons are born of the condemned womb of their mother. In Bhagavad-gītā (1.40) it is said, "When there is deliberate negligence of the regulative principles of religious life, the women as a class become polluted, and as a result there are unwanted children." This is especially true for boys; if the mother is not good, there cannot be good sons. The learned Kaśyapa could foresee the character of the sons who would be born of the condemned womb of Diti. The womb was condemned because of the mother's being too sexually inclined and thus transgressing all the laws and injunctions of the scriptures. In a society where such women are predominant, one should not expect good children.

Cinemas and television are just promoting the promiscuity in women or corrupting their moral dignity. They set up the standards of beauty. As parents, we ourselves must have resistance to urges of fashion trends set by demoniac/materialistic society. Loose hairs, revealing clothing, craze for cosmetics are promoted in social media.  

The daughter needs proper training and care before taking the role of a mother too.

Mwanandeke Kindembo, Resistance To Intolerance

Girls, young women and women all must be trained to be mothers not as sex objects. There is no need for chaste woman to read and practice kama sutra,  it is meant for prostitutes and courtesans.  Women must be strictly trained in religious institutions like churches, mosques or Sanātana dharma or Vedic or Hindu culture.  

Research has shown that children has inherited behavioural, temperamental and moral traits from their mothers X chromosome.  Whereas the Y chromosome is for sex determination.  Father's chromosome responsible for the gender of the child, obviously is determined by physical sexual organs. So children inherit the physical traits from fathers and mental impressions from mothers.  

So, there is a pushing need for women to be trained as mothers not as masters. 

Although Seed giving father is important, chances of the seed to fructify depends on the fertility of the womb. Just experiment on planting the two same seeds in different soil environments. Viability of seed is same, the soil conditions make it good or crippled plant. Similarly,  the role of mothers is very important in child birth and upbringing.  

Another example,  kayadhu mother of Prahlada maharaja. Although the father is demon, since mother is pious and cultured woman, Prahlada maharaja was a good son. 

Semen just gives the life and rest all depends on the mother. Nature of mother influences children's attitude. 

Women should be restrained ( the very word restrained gives us the idea that their training depends on don'ts more than dos, ie pull back tight from what is not be done ) and controlled  for the benefit of happy society. Women are easily vulnerable to immoral behaviour. 

This article doesn't encourage men to be unrestricted and necessarily demoniac.  But more emphasis is needed on the training of women over men in the comparative sense. Men must be trained in celibacy and women in chastity. 






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